'Nocs walk 02

Our neighborhood ā€˜nocs walks are continuing apace! Here are some of the birds weā€™ve spotted in the past monthā€¦

Male mallard duck standing on rocks on bank of East River

Male mallard

Male mallard duck standing on rocks on bank of East River

Male mallard

Female mallard duck standing on rocks on bank of East River

Female mallard

Small flock of brants on the East River

Brants

Starling sitting on a wire fence

Starling

Male house sparrow sitting on temporary wire fence

House sparrow

White-throated sparrow on the ground

White-throated sparrow

White-throated sparrow standing on tree root on the ground

White-throated sparrow

Camera/lens: Nikon D3000 + Nikon AF-P DX NIKKOR 70-300mm f/4.5-6.3G ED lens

Nocs: Pentax UP 10x21 pink binoculars (hers) and Carson VP series full sized or compact waterproof high definition binoculars (mine)

Location: WNYC Transmitter Park šŸ¤

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Just Good Shit: 04.03.22

Image: Kiyana Salkeld / Just Good Shit

Hi! Hereā€™s what I was up to this weekā€¦

Writing

I spent a lot of time working on this one and am really happy itā€™s finally out in the world!

Reading

We Have The Right To Not Be Annoyed, Ijeoma Oluo: Behind the Book.

Indignity Vol. 2, No. 26: All Fools' Day, Indignity.
ā€œThe joke is on everyone, all the time, and there's no way to get out from under it.ā€ (Related.)

How an Ivy League School Turned Against a Student, The New Yorker.
This is justā€¦appalling.

ā€˜Iā€™m the Operatorā€™: The Aftermath of a Self-Driving Tragedy, Wired.

The Cruel Theater of Encampment Sweeps, Curbed.

Did Sweden beat the pandemic by refusing to lock down? No, its record is disastrous, LA Times.

LGBTQ Students Are Being Terrorized. Floridaā€™s 'Donā€™t Say Gay' Law Will Make It Worse., HuffPost.

The Biggest Lie About Floridaā€™s ā€œDonā€™t Say Gayā€ Bill Erases One Crucial Word, Slate.

The FDA made mail-order abortion pills legal. Access is still a nightmare., Vox.

The QAnon Style of Politics Is Taking Over America, TNR.

My Friend Goo, The Paris Review.
ā€œSomething in my voice must have calmed him because instead of marching over looking for a fight, heā€™d come waddling out, softly honking and purringā€”because he would purr at you, you see, if he liked you, and Goo came to like me.ā€

BuzzFeed Doesnā€™t Deserve Its Newsroom, The Nation.

How Two Best Friends Beat Amazon, NYT. (gift link)
Finally, some good news.

Listening to

Disorientation on audiobook. The Great Mattress Conspiracy: Why Are There So Many Mattress Firm Stores? and the new season of Fiasco.

Have a good one! āœØ

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Just Good Shit: 03.27.22

Just Good Shit: 03.20.22

Just Good Shit: 03.13.22

orange and white tulips

Hi! Hope youā€™re weathering the start of Daylight Saving Time okay. (I, for one, hate it and will be complaining about it for at least two more days.) Hereā€™s what I got up to this weekā€¦

My shit:

And thereā€™s a new episode of Oh, I Like That out! This week, we talked about games.

Reading

How Did This Many Deaths Become Normal?, The Atlantic.

How To Murder a Good Idea With Conventional Wisdom, In These Times.

ā€œOne year after the biggest protest movement in American history demanded police reform, we now find ourselves in the ludicrous position of being told by all of the shallowest professional political savants that defunding the police is a toxic position that is poison to Democrats.ā€

The Biden Administration Killed Americaā€™s Collective Pandemic Approach, The Atlantic.

Here's Why Pandemic Fatigue Is (Still) So Draining, SELF.

A Poem (and a Painting) About the Suffering That Hides in Plain Sight, NYT. (gift link)

Angela Davis on the power of protest: ā€˜We canā€™t do anything without optimismā€™, The Guardian.

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'Nocs walk 01

My girlfriend and I made a goal for this month to go on at least one excursion with our binoculars ā€” a ā€˜nocs walk! ā€” every week. We actually did three this week, but todayā€™s was the first one where I had the pre-owned telephoto lens I bought last week. Here are some of the birds we saw:

Red-tailed hawk

American robin

Female house sparrow

Male house sparrow

Male house sparrow

White-throated sparrow

House sparrow

Rock pigeon

Camera/lens: Nikon D3000 + Nikon AF-P DX NIKKOR 70-300mm f/4.5-6.3G ED lens

Nocs: Pentax UP 10x21 pink binoculars (hers) and Carson VP series full sized or compact waterproof high definition binoculars (mine)

Location: McCarren Park šŸ¦

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Just Good Shit: 03.06.22

Hello!

Iā€™m back in Brooklyn after a trip to the Catskills last week. My girlfriend and I stayed in a rental with a fireplace and hot tub, and that isā€¦pretty much all we did! Woke up and soakedā€¦did sunny midday soaksā€¦soaked in the eveningā€¦took out the binoculars to peep birds while soakingā€¦looked at snow and trees and stars while soakingā€¦ truly the best way to do nature! (I was also moved to re-read this extremely soothing and delightful 2016 NYT Magazine article about Icelandā€™s public baths.)

We also knit by the fire, worked on a puzzle, made ziti, got takeout from Phoenicia Diner, drove to Ashokan Reservoir, and made a stop at Woodbury Commons. On Friday, we went birding in Prospect Park, which wasā€¦incredible?! We saw so many birds, including cardinals, blue jays, downy woodpeckers, a shitload of robins, and, right before we left, a throuple of wood ducks. (Next on my to-do list: Getting my nice camera repaired so I can properly capture them.) It was a really lovely time, and Iā€™m just so glad we got to take this trip.

Hereā€™s what else Iā€™ve been up toā€¦

Reading

Right now we are just trying to survive, Welcome to Hell World.

Texasā€™s Attorney General Is Laying the Groundwork to Separate Trans Kids From Their Families, The New Republic.

Who Should Be Allowed to Transition?, NYT.
Related: ā€œcis people also get gender-affirming procedures but just donā€™t call it that.ā€

So, Just Making Sure That We Agree: It's OK To Seize Oligarchs' Stuff Now, Forever Wars.

Justice According to Letitia James, NY Mag.

If youā€™ve rented a car from Hertz, there could be a warrant out for your arrest, Yahoo.
I hate Hertz. Hate!!!

The Endless Cycle of Opinion Havers, Men Yell at Me.

The Euphoria Problem, All in Her Head.

Paul Farmer Invented a New Way of Caring for One Another, The Atlantic.
ā€œWe must all care for one anotherā€”anything less is morally unacceptable.ā€ I confess I didnā€™t know who Paul Farmer was before reading this obituary, but I still found it incredibly moving and inspiring.

A gripping yarn: inside the Knitting.com drama, Input.

Listening to

We started listening to Slateā€™s Decoder Ring podcast last week in the Catskills and itā€™s so good!! Think Youā€™re Wrong About meets This American Life. I think weā€™ve listened to about 10 eps so far, and every one has been a banger. Itā€™s hard to pick a fave but I really liked ā€œTruck Nutzā€ and ā€œGender Reveal Parties.ā€

Have a good one! āœØ

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Just Good Shit: 02.21.22

I wasnā€™t feeling well over this three-day weekend, so I spent most of it knitting and watching Real Housewives of New Jersey Season 4, which, combined with Season 3, is truly some of the best television ā€” and certainly the best reality television ā€” Iā€™ve ever seen. The drama feels real, the brawls feel earned, and every goddamn line is a banger. I thought Succession was the best example of modern-day Shakespeare, but RHONJ certainly feels like one of his lesser-known plays. Season 3 opens with a brawl at christening (!!), where thereā€™s ~150 guests and a prominently-displayed oil painting of the baby (Joey ā€” there are so many baby Joeys) wearing a tiny newsboy cap. The whole two-season arc is pure camp and Iā€™m fully obsessed.

Hereā€™s what else I got up to this weekā€¦

Reading

The Millions of People Stuck in Pandemic Limbo, The Atlantic.

The Moral Danger of Declaring the Pandemic Over Too Soon, NYT. (gift link)

ā€œThe lesson of the AIDS pandemic is that itā€™s easy to leave people behind, even if it is at the cost of our collective peril.ā€

27 Years in Solitary Confinement, Then Another Plea for Help in Texas, NYT. (gift link)

We are deeply and profoundly sorry: For decades, The Baltimore Sun promoted policies that oppressed Black Marylanders; we are working to make amends, Baltimore Sun.

The Crankification Engine, Gawker.

How Bosco Sticks Became the Secret Weapon of Midwestern Cafeterias, Eater.


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Just Good Shit: 02.13.22

pinwheel lasagna, roses, and pellegrino on top of a white and red checkered tablecloth for Valentine's Day

Iā€™ve been having such a cozy and relaxing Valentineā€™s Day weekend, Iā€™m not ready for it to be over! Here, in no particular order, are the corny/on-theme activities weā€™ve gotten up to:

  • Wearing pink, lavender, and/or red loungewear all weekend

  • Buying roses from the grocery store

  • Making boxed brownies, then topping with vanilla ice cream and chocolate syrup (very chain restaurant molten lava)

  • Playing a little flower card game

  • Listening to Slut Pop, the new Kim Petras album

  • Watching Real Housewives of New Jersey Season 3 (thanks to a rec on the podcast from Caroline Moss), which is truly incredible television

  • Eating bread and brie plus strawberries with chocolate and whipped cream and, later, hot chocolate

  • Doing red/pink mani-pedis in bed

  • Making Don Angie pinwheel lasagna (from the frozen extras we made for New Yearā€™s)

Hereā€™s what else I had going on this weekā€¦

My shit


Reading

What Do Masks Do to Kids?, The New Republic.

Boston University epidemiologist Dr. Eleanor Murray speaks on COVID-19 and endemicity Part 1 and Part 2, WSWS.

Stop Calling Them ā€˜Accidentsā€™, NYT. (gift link)

Artificial snow is nothing like the real stuff, Vox.

How to win an Oscar, Vox.
This is a fascinating breakdown of what an ā€œOscars campaignā€ actually entails.

Was It Me? Or My Teeth?, NYT. (gift link)

'Goodnight Moon' and the Queer Love Story of the Great Green Room, Lambda Literary.

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Valentineā€™s Day gifts to self

Lavender notebook, red cardinal (bird) patch, and Tussie Mussie game, atop a red and white checkered tablecloth

Iā€™ve always loved Valentineā€™s Day, thanks to its indomitable color palette, embrace of kitsch, and overall message: Let someone know you care about them! While it might be a a little late to buy something for your Valentine (though I do have a list of last-minute Valentine's Day gift ideas for the discerning but procrastinating drugstore shopper if thatā€™s where you are this year), itā€™s absolutely not too late to buy a little treat for yourself.

Here are some recs, based on things Iā€™ve bought/loved recently.

Until Weā€™re All Free sweatshirt

Prison Abolition is Trans Liberation pink sweatshirt

This is part of a fundraiser for Trans Lifeline, and proceeds ā€œgo directly toward life-saving commissary & bail funds for trans people in prison.ā€ Available in four shirt styles and four colors, sizes Sā€“4XL, ranging from $25ā€“$35. Get it from Bonfire.

Leuchtturm1917 Smooth Colours notebook

Leuchtturm1917 lavender softcover notebook

Leuchtturm is finally ā€” FINALLY ā€” making my beloved dot grid notebook in beautiful pastels. Available in four colors, four page styles, and either hard or softcover. Get it for $21 from Leuchtturm or Amazon.

Cardinal patch

red cardinal (bird) fabric patch

I received this cardinal as part of the bird patch monthly subscription, but you can buy it ā€” and several other cute bird patches ā€” individually. Get it from Bird Collective for $8.

Tussie Mussie

Tussie Mussie game

This game, which was designed by Wingspan designer Elizabeth Hargrave, is based on the Victorian tradition of giving flowers to friends and romantic loves. There are only 18 cards, so itā€™s super portable (and easy to learn), and the cards themselves are so cute IRL. While itā€™s currently sold out (thereā€™s a waiting list though!), itā€™s absolutely worth poking around Button Shy, which has a lot more of these extremely cute ā€œwallet games.ā€ (I also have Insurmountable, which is a one-player game ā€” always nice to come across those.)

Heartbreak: A Personal and Scientific Journey

I am so excited that the author of my beloved Nature Fix is back with a new book! You can read an excerpt, and get a copy from Bookshop ($27.60) or Amazon ($21.05).

This was actually one of my girlfriendā€™s Valentineā€™s gifts to me and I love it! The tube is just a little bigger than a tube of chapstick (perfect for a knitting bag or fanny pack) and the product itself is really good ā€” non-greasy, with a no-fragrance version (along with several scented options). Get it from The Knitting Hole for $11. šŸ’

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