My favorite cloth face masks

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Over the past five months, I, like a lot of people, have tried a bunch of different cloth face masks. Some have turned out to be better than others, so I thought I’d share the ones that I like the best and that are holding up well!

A couple top-level notes, for context:

  • When I’m venturing out, I’m doing fairly low-risk activities: taking my dog out, going for walks in the park, taking trash to the trash room, and picking up packages from the front desk (which is generally possible to do at a distance). If you’re spending more time in close proximity to and/or indoors with people who aren’t in your household, these might not be the best options.

  • Not all of my favorites are three-ply or have a hydrophilic outer layer (which I learned about when working on this article), but those are features I’m looking for as I buy new ones.

  • I generally pair my masks with a filter (more on those later), so that adds another layer/improves the effectiveness.

  • Since we started buying masks, my girlfriend and I have discovered that I have a BIG FACE (I mean, I sort of already knew that) and she has a ˢᵐᵃ˔˔ į¶ įµƒį¶œįµ‰ so our mask preferences are fairly different. She prefers masks that have ear loops with adjusters and is not a fan of behind the head elastic, whereas pretty much all masks fit me well. Some of the ones below work for both of us, which is a nice bonus, but others really only work for me.

So! With all that said, here are the cloth face masks that I like a lot:

Stark’s face masks

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These are a fairly recent addition that I thiiiink I found via Instagram ad, and they are great! We now have four in rotation and I really like them. These masks have the adjustable ear loops, three layers, and the lilac is so nice. (It also comes in several other colors, and they are now making a slightly smaller option for smaller faces.) Get one from Stark’s for $12.95.

BaubleBar face masks

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These are another recentish addition that I immediately ordered more of after a couple wears. They are soft/comfortable, they have the adjustable ear loops, and I like the pattern options. Get a two-pack from BaubleBar for $12.

Amalfii face masks

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This was actually the very first mask I bought, and they’ve been great! They are full-coverage with a fairly tight seal, and they’ve held up very well in the wash. Get a three-pack from Amalfii for $30 (multiple colors available).

Gir.co filters

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I came across these filters when I bought the masks that require them this spring. While I like the masks quite a bit (they are lightweight and can be sterilized in the stove, microwave, or dishwasher), I like the filters even more. I usually order three packs at a time and they always ship/arrive quickly. Get a ten-pack for $10 from Gir.co.


Wear a mask! Over your nose!! Please!!! 😷

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Just Good Shit: 08.16.20

Image: Kiyana Salkeld / Just Good Shit

Image: Kiyana Salkeld / Just Good Shit

Hi! Here’s what I have for you this week…

On the blog

Writing

Reading

The Scramble to Pluck 24 Billion Cherries in Eight Weeks, The New York Times.

The Plan That Could Give Us Our Lives Back, The Atlantic.

The Afflictions of the Comfortable, The American Prospect.

Sweatpants Forever: How the Fashion Industry Collapsed, The New York Times.

We Asked a Gyno About ā€˜WAP’, Vulture.

Watching & listening to

My friend Sally recommended Leah Remini: Scientology and the Aftermath (on Hulu), which is horrifying but incredibly compelling. I also listened to the ā€œWayfair and Human Trafficking Statisticsā€ episode of You’re Wrong About, which is a good companion to the NYT cherries story I linked to. And I loved listening to my friends Alisha and Caroline chat in the most recent episode of Gee Thanks, Just Bought It!

Eating

We had Summer Shrimp Scampi With Tomatoes and Corn from NYT Cooking, and really liked it. (We used canned corn, and it was actually great.) I’m also looking forward to turning some summer tomatoes into Nora Ephron’s cold tomato sauce soon. Also, two grocery purchases/treats that I highly recommend: Pillsbury cinnamon rolls (the little five-count is nice) and frozen mozzarella sticks.


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My beach birthday in quarantine

For my 35th birthday last week, my girlfriend threw a beach party for the two of us at home. The theme was ā€œcool 90s beach/shells/Enchantment Under the Seaā€ + my Animal Crossing beach, which has a pastel rainbow ombrĆ© theme.

Blended painkiller drink in a coconut

She went all out with lots of inflatables and several outfit changes (including an outfit for Chuck), all of which she managed to keep under wraps until my birthday.


The morning of, I was sequestered in the bedroom for an hour or so while she set up. At one point, she cracked the door open and handed me breakfast and a bikini T-shirt, and told me to ā€œdress for a day at the beach.ā€

Bikini T-shirt on bed

When she told me I could come out a little while later, she had transformed the apartment with two giant pink shells floats, palm trees, flamingos, beach balls, and rainbow ombrĆ© streamers. . There was a beach scene on the TV, ā€œGirl from Ipanemaā€ was playing, and there were bubbles wafting out from a bubble machine (!!!) in the kitchen.

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A blended painkiller.

A blended painkiller.

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Julia Turshen’s ā€œHappy Wife, Happy Lifeā€ cake + ā€œtan linesā€ Fancy Sprinkles.

Julia Turshen’s ā€œHappy Wife, Happy Lifeā€ cake + ā€œtan linesā€ Fancy Sprinkles.

I think my favorite detail was the airbrushed T-shirts my gf ordered from Etsy for us to wear in the evening ā€œon the boardwalk.ā€ The T-shirts had a beach scene + both of our names (essentially this one, but heart-shaped). We wore them for a Google Hangout with some friends (where everyone came dressed to theme, another very good surprise).

Overall, it was a lovely and fun day/weekend, despite everything going on in the world right now.

Chuck the dog dressed like a lobster

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I've finally achieved my lifelong dream of owning a postal scale

blue USPS postal scale sitting on light wood desk, in front of color chart and ambrosia boysmells candle

Since everyone is—reasonably, correctly!—talking about the post office right now (and buying lots of stamps), it seems like a good time to mention a recentish purchase of mine that has been very wonderful: my USPS postal scale.

I have wanted a postal scale basically since I’ve known what they are, but have never had a super compelling reason to get one. But a couple months ago — wanting/needing to send small packages but not willing to go inside a closet-sized UPS store to do so — I decided to buy one. And let me tell you, it’s been worth its weight in gold.

Basically, a postal scale allows you to precisely calculate the weight of a package, so you can then create a shipping label from home. (This postal scale can connect to your computer/the USPS website via USB, but that feature only works with PCs. Fortunately, that’s not actually necessary — you can simply type the weight in on the USPS website when you’re preparing the label.)

It’s been really helpful to have the scale in a few instances where I’ve needed to make a return and the company doesn’t cover return shipping/provide a label; without it, I would be sort of screwed. It also allows the possibility of sending out care packages and gifts!

To make the postal scale work, you’ll also need access to a printer for the labels you’re creating, which I feel like might actually be the higher barrier to entry…but I got a printer this summer too, and can say that having both in my home has made me feel very powerful! Not having a working printer is a hassle fairly regularly, so having one has been a true relief, and made it easier to stay at home/inside.

Buy it from USPS for $35.99. šŸ“«

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Just Good Shit: 08.09.20

Image: Kiyana Salkeld / Just Good Shit

Image: Kiyana Salkeld / Just Good Shit

On Friday, I celebrated my 35th birthday with a beach-themed quarantine ā€œpartyā€ my gf planned (and that is still ongoing)! Here’s what else I was up to this week…

Writing

My shit, elsewhere

Here’s an interview I did with TODAY.com: How to master 'The Art of Showing Up' during a pandemic.

Reading

The Soft Butch That Couldn’t (Or: I Got COVID-19 in March and Never Got Better), Autostraddle.
If you read one thing this week, make it this.

Covid Is Horrible — So Is Worrying You’ve Infected Someone, NY Mag.

Scrapbooking As an Act of ā€œRadical Self-Careā€, The New York Times.
I used to be an avid scrapbooker, so I extra loved this.

I Scream. You Scream. The Meltdown At The Museum Of Ice Cream, Forbes.

I Toured A $43 Million Home With The Guy Who Made ā€œSelling Sunsetā€, BuzzFeed News.

#1281: ā€œEvery conversation with my mom is an interrogation of my life choices.ā€, Captain Awkward.

Pattern for a homemade mask with a clear panel (to make lip reading possible).

This Is the Romantic Gesture of Quarantine, The Cut.

Eating

I recently bought a HUGE bag of lavender and have been making some old faves: lavender tahini toast and homemade cold brew with lavender simple syrup + sweet cream creamer.

Wearing

For the past couple of weeks, I have been living in my new tie-dye sweatpants ($28, runs big — I got a large) and matching sweatshirt ($28, runs true to size). I also bought bike shorts ($13 from Amazon) after seeing them in Hitha’s newsletter, and they are really soft and summer cozy.

Have a good night! 🧁

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Just Good Shit: 08.02.20

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Image: Kiyana Salkeld / Just Good Shit

Hello again! This one is coming to you a bit late tonight because I was washing my hair.

Here’s what else I had going on this week…

Writing

Reading

Together, You Can Redeem the Soul of Our Nation, The New York Times.

Hygiene Theater Is a Huge Waste of Time, The Atlantic.

How Jared Kushner’s Secret Testing Plan ā€œWent Poof Into Thin Airā€, Vanity Fair.

I Went to Disney World, The Atlantic.

Does Taylor Swift Have to Be Queer for ā€œfolkloreā€ to be a Lesbian Album?, Bitch.

ā€˜My Boyfriend’s Roommate Is Asking Me for Rent Money’, The Cut.

Meet The Artist Behind Gigi Hadid’s Colorful Pasta Cabinets, Refinery29.
I lost my grip on reality reading this article!!

Watching

The Gigi Hadid apartment article above led to my watching a ton of Architectural Digest celeb home tour videos, which I highly recommend! My favorite was Cara Delevingne’s; other homes were so bad, we couldn’t even finish them. Honestly…perfect.

Have a good night! šŸ§–šŸ½ā€ā™€ļø

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Just Good Shit: 07.26.20

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Image: Kiyana Salkeld / Just Good Shit

Hello! Here’s what I was doing this week when I wasn’t listening to ā€œbettyā€ and ā€œexileā€ on repeat.

Writing

I published A Beginner's Guide for 'Straight' Women Who Want to Act on Queer Feelings, which I started working on back in January (and then paused because of the pandemic), and am very excited to have out in the world!

My shit, elsewhere

I was on two podcasts this week: The Struggle Bus, talking to my friend Sally about reality TV, weddings, and boundaries, and Girl Gaze, talking about my career path.

Reading

There Is So Much More Than the Nuclear Family, Even Now, The Atlantic.

Getting Done Up When You’re Coming Undone, Ssense.

ā€œThis is a thread of fun times I had while enforcing the new company policy of required masks at the grocery store I work at.ā€

In 2000, ā€˜Cribs’ became a phenomenon. 20 years later, we’re all living in an accidental reboot., Washington Post.

God, I Miss Eavesdropping, The Cut.

Does Dunkin’ Donuts Really Keep Ben Affleck’s Coffee Order on File?, Vulture.

Another Dull Quarantine Weekend at Home, Target, Chipotle, Home Depot, and Our Niece’s Graduation Party, McSweeney’s.

Eating

These meatballs, which were great. And this year’s batch of my beloved McLeod Farm's peaches, which are as special as ever. (I think Chuck agrees.)

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Just Good Shit: 07.19.20

Just Good Shit: 07.12.20

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Just Good Shit: 07.05.20

Image: Kiyana Salkeld / Just Good Shit

Image: Kiyana Salkeld / Just Good Shit

Hi! Here’s what I had going on this week…

Writing

Reading

Just Because You Can Doesn’t Mean You Should, The Atlantic.

When You Are Paid 13 Hours for a 24-Hour Shift, The New York Times.

Why the term ā€œBIPOCā€ is so complicated, explained by linguists, Vox.

How Mount Rushmore Became Mount Rushmore, The New York Times.

On Instagram, Ban.do Looked Like A Millennial Woman’s Paradise. In Reality, Employees Say They Were Miserable., BuzzFeed News.

Cult Classic ā€œBut I’m A Cheerleaderā€ Championed Femme Lesbianism, BuzzFeed News.

Reading Anti-Racist Nonfiction Is a Start. But Don’t Underestimate the Power of Black Fiction, Time.

Why Cubbyhole Is the One New York Bar I Always Return To, CondƩ Nast Traveler.

Other shit

Yesterday, my girlfriend and I had a lovely at-home ā€œbeachā€ day. We wore our bathing suits and other beach clothes; lay on towels; read 28 Summers (not my fave Elin book, but still a very beachy beach read); made painkillers and grilled burgers; and listened to ocean waves (surprisingly effective) from one phone and Carly Rae Jepsen bops from the other. It was really mellow and dreamy, and I highly recommend something like this to anyone who needs something to look forward to/is a bit bored/misses summer fun.

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