Cozy little iPhone games

As part of my ongoing quest to be on social media less, especially since last November, I’ve added a bunch of games to my phone—because sometimes you want to zone out for a bit or are bored waiting in a line, but you’d prefer not to open Instagram or be bombarded with the day’s latest horrors.

Here’s what I’m generally looking for in an iPhone game:

• Something that is played vertically. I’m not looking to turn my phone into a Nintendo Switch when I’m sitting in a doctor’s office waiting room, so this list doesn’t include any games that are super immersive or time-consuming. 

• Beautiful art, good music, and satisfying haptics. A lot of mobile games are just Not It for me, aesthetically speaking. I want to play games that feel elegant and nice. 

• Something that offers infinite lives, without a lot of microtransactions, ads, or attempts to upsell you. I’m not opposed to paying for mobile games, but I’d rather do it once versus constantly being compelled to buy lives or upgrade. The exception to this is games that you can only play once per day (like Wordle). 

• Gameplay that is challenging but not impossible. Anything that is too difficult gets boring after a while! 

Puzzle Gods. This is actually a game from Netflix—they have a bunch of them, both for mobile and within the TV app—and it’s free with an account (though you can also buy it for $1.99 if you’re not a Netflix subscriber). The best thing about it is that it’s essentially all-you-can-eat: It’s ad-free, there are no in-app transactions, and you get unlimited lives. In terms of the game itself, it’s a classic match-three with very cute art and fun sound effects. You can also skip levels that are too hard after a certain number of attempts, which I like. And with 1500 levels, it’ll take you a while to get through all of them. 

whPsh! This is a match-three game that I downloaded after playing my way through Puzzle Gods. It does limit the number of lives you have in a given session, but I liked the vibe and how the developers talk about the game, so I was willing to pay the $9.99 for unlimited access. Pro tip: Change the music to “vox machina” and the “item theme” to the round flat circles and turn the music off entirely for the nicest experience.

Monument Valley. I’m usually not into mazes or spatial puzzles, so I was surprised by how much I liked this game. The graphics are beautiful, and, coupled with the music, mechanics, and story, make for a kind of magical experience. There are currently three editions (all available as separate apps). The biggest con is that there aren’t a ton of levels/I was able to play through all of it very quickly. This is another game that you can access for free with a Netflix account, and that also has a paid option. 

Queens. I learned about this game from Terri, as I was not previously aware that LinkedIn has games. You can only play once per day, which is a bummer because I really like it! 

Honorable mentions (a.k.a. games I like, but that I’ve either fallen off playing or that don’t meet all of the criteria above): 

• SP!NG

• I Love Hue and I Love Hue Too 

• SimpleMatch3

• Two Dots

• Threes

• CozyMahjong

Let me know if there are any other games in this vein that you love that I should check out! 📱

Toward a more perfect home screen

Image: Courtney Carver, Be More With Less

When I saw this photo from Courtney Carver / Be More With Less pop up in my Instagram feed last August, I was...lightly shocked?! To be honest, I didn’t even know what I was looking at at first; my eyes needed time to adjust. After staring at it for a few seconds, I realized it was an iPhone with a home screen that had been entirely cleared of apps. I guess I could have reasoned that one could do this, if one wanted to, but I’d genuinely never seen anything like it.

This is what Courtney wrote in the photo’s caption about her setup:

“No apps on the home screen or placed in neatly labeled containers. Nope. All apps are in one folder (see lower right of my screen). I open my apps (when I want to) by swiping right and typing the app name in the search bar. That way I'm not tempted because I see an app icon.”

(BTW, the caption has several other tips for practicing good digital hygiene and is worth reading in full!)

When I saw the photo, I had already buried Facebook and Twitter deep enough in my phone that I essentially forgot about them / stopped using them, but this photo made me consider whether there were any other apps that needed to go. There was: Instagram. I was finding myself reaching for it more and more last year for a couple reasons. First, because it was there. But also because I’d turned on notifications after several years of not having them. I did it because I was getting tagged in more Stories, particularly from people who were posting about my book, and if I didn’t open the app for 24 hours, I wouldn’t see the story they had tagged me in or be able to reply/thank them. The problem was that I was now getting notifications about all my DMs, many of which weren’t that important but were still super distracting. (I am the kind of person who can’t stand having a notification badge!)

All that to say: seeing this photo on Instagram gave me the push I needed to move Instagram off my home screen and bury it in a folder so it was a couple swipes away. (I replaced it on my home screen with Headspace.) I didn’t turn off IG notifications but I didn’t need to; the effect was immediate and dramatic. Turns out, when the red notification badge isn’t on my home screen, it doesn’t bother me nearly as much. I really like Instagram (the main feed anyway) so I was genuinely shocked by how little I thought about or cared about it when it wasn’t just there.  

After moving the Instagram app, I also cleaned up my home screen a little bit. I figured I wasn’t going to achieve home screen minimalism overnight, but I could start moving in that direction. So I deleted/buried more apps and made two rows of additional space on my home screen. Here’s how it currently looks:

(If I swipe right, the screen has just two rows of icons: five folders with apps + three standalone apps.)

It’s not totally minimalist, but I feel good about where things are / my relationship with my phone at the moment!

Some related things:

• I think about this Cher tweet a lot. “I need to shoot my phone / shoot your phone” has actually become shorthand in my friend group for everything from “Twitter is terrible” to “hi please put your phone down and be present with me.”

• If you’re feeling like you need to do more to shoot your phone, you might like the book Digital Minimalism: Choosing a Focused Life in a Noisy World, which I read a couple months ago. It’s a good read overall, and also makes a pretty compelling case for a full 30-day app detox. (Buy it on Amazon for $10.49 or find it at a local bookstore.)

• You can also get a sense of the book from this GQ interview with the author, which I really liked: Cal Newport on Why We'll Look Back at Our Smartphones Like Cigarettes.

• Two more good reads: Turn Off Your Push Notifications. All of Them (Wired) and Your Notifications Are Lying to You (Lifehacker).

• And finally, if you want to read more “I didn’t know my phone could do that!” content, you might like this NYT article: How to Tap Less on Your Phone (but Get More Done). (I’m a huge fan of creating text abbreviations!) 📴

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